Men in their 40's

I come to realize that men in their 40's who are single are single for a reason.

I had the proverbial Mr. Right and I walked away. Dumb Dumb Dumb.........I have recently tried internet dating and let me tell you each time I met these men in public places they were already drunk. I need to find a man who likes to drink and what I mean by drinking is sharing a good bottle of wine, savoring the flavors, sipping the wine while having good conversation over a meal and not at the local joint where everyone hangs out on Saturday night. A nice restaurant and it doesn't have to be five star, T.G.I Friday's will do. Not only were these men drunk, they assumed it was ok to paw me and kiss me. I had to have my friend call and pretend it was my mom who had fallin down to get away from the Octopus. (The first one seemed pretty nice, but after some thought and we had agreed to go out together the next day, I decided I would meet him there rather than ride with him on the back of his Harley-in case he got too drunk to drive, he proceeded to yell at me that we would go together as a team, needless to say, I cancelled) (The second one, called me four times before I arrived asking how soon will I get there, etc and after I said goodnight to him-he called four times on the drive back home-would you say a little smothering)

I am an independent woman, happy in my own skin and I don't need a man in my life to fulfill a void. A companion would be nice. Someone to visit museums together, take trips with, but the idea that I am a piece of meat, no I am better than that. And it it's not out there, than so be it.........