I thought I met a great guy, was I wrong.....

Recently, I met a great guy through myspace. He was Retired Navy and very well refined and smart. He had a lot going for him, just an all around gentlemen. Few and far between in this world. We agreed to meet for lunch. The lunch went really well he asked if he could see me again and I was thrilled, he wasn't handsome, but he was physically fit....with a great body. Before we parted ways, he mentioned he was going through a divorce and he could only see me occasionally because his soon to be ex recently returned home to claim her half of everything (If that was the truth). I agreed to take it slow. We met up again in three weeks and the lunch went well, I thought. And now, he has taken his myspace webpage down. I did mention at the first lunch that I had been cheated on by my first husband and he said that's what he had been accused of, so was he looking for a fling or was he shopping around for the next Mrs. Retired Navy. Frankly, I am dissappointed in him. I thought he had enough class to let me know he wasn't interested. Should I send him an email at work? That's my next decision. Asking him why.......he did have a lot of friends on his myspace page all hot women from around the area some raunchery than me...what he didn't know was I am probably the rauchiest, I just don't advertise it..He missed out on probably the best sex he's ever had....I can swallow!!!!!!

The reason I left my EX!!!!!!

I have met procratinator's in my time, but no one as bad as my 2nd ex. The worst of it came after we were legally divorced about a year and a half ago. I received a bill for about $24,000 from the IRS from the last year we filed together. Apparently, he said it's an issue with the mutual funds and him moving the money around. It was never reflected he put the money back. He stated that Fidelity didn't submit the correct info to the IRS. Well he said he would handle it and then 4 months later another bill arrived for about $26,000 four months later $28,000 and then just two months ago for over $30,000 and they were going to start taking money from us both.......when I spoke to the IRS, I was told he had never made contact with them. I was livid, I called his parents and left them a voice message letting them know of the problem. Because they are the only ones who can get his butt moving on important issues. I then filed an 'Innocent Spouse' form and said to wait 30-45 days, I then receiving info from the IRS stating it would be another 90 days because they had to verify the information with my ex. Now tell me, if he ignored them before, it stands to reason he will ignore their attempt to get help with my issue. So when I file my taxes, I will lose any money owed and when the $600 is issued in May I won't see that either. Our married life was like that too, I was always nagging him to do important things. I nicknamed him the Absent Minded Computer Geek......I thought that was history, I wouldn't have to deal with his laziness anymore.