I thought I met a great guy, was I wrong.....

Recently, I met a great guy through myspace. He was Retired Navy and very well refined and smart. He had a lot going for him, just an all around gentlemen. Few and far between in this world. We agreed to meet for lunch. The lunch went really well he asked if he could see me again and I was thrilled, he wasn't handsome, but he was physically fit....with a great body. Before we parted ways, he mentioned he was going through a divorce and he could only see me occasionally because his soon to be ex recently returned home to claim her half of everything (If that was the truth). I agreed to take it slow. We met up again in three weeks and the lunch went well, I thought. And now, he has taken his myspace webpage down. I did mention at the first lunch that I had been cheated on by my first husband and he said that's what he had been accused of, so was he looking for a fling or was he shopping around for the next Mrs. Retired Navy. Frankly, I am dissappointed in him. I thought he had enough class to let me know he wasn't interested. Should I send him an email at work? That's my next decision. Asking him why.......he did have a lot of friends on his myspace page all hot women from around the area some raunchery than me...what he didn't know was I am probably the rauchiest, I just don't advertise it..He missed out on probably the best sex he's ever had....I can swallow!!!!!!

The reason I left my EX!!!!!!

I have met procratinator's in my time, but no one as bad as my 2nd ex. The worst of it came after we were legally divorced about a year and a half ago. I received a bill for about $24,000 from the IRS from the last year we filed together. Apparently, he said it's an issue with the mutual funds and him moving the money around. It was never reflected he put the money back. He stated that Fidelity didn't submit the correct info to the IRS. Well he said he would handle it and then 4 months later another bill arrived for about $26,000 four months later $28,000 and then just two months ago for over $30,000 and they were going to start taking money from us both.......when I spoke to the IRS, I was told he had never made contact with them. I was livid, I called his parents and left them a voice message letting them know of the problem. Because they are the only ones who can get his butt moving on important issues. I then filed an 'Innocent Spouse' form and said to wait 30-45 days, I then receiving info from the IRS stating it would be another 90 days because they had to verify the information with my ex. Now tell me, if he ignored them before, it stands to reason he will ignore their attempt to get help with my issue. So when I file my taxes, I will lose any money owed and when the $600 is issued in May I won't see that either. Our married life was like that too, I was always nagging him to do important things. I nicknamed him the Absent Minded Computer Geek......I thought that was history, I wouldn't have to deal with his laziness anymore.

The gall of some men!!!

Last night I was sleeping it was of course 1 a.m. and my phone rang. It was the first guy I met two weeks ago. When I didn't answer he proceeded to call back, I answered and well I wasn't very nice, LOL....thank god he doesn't know where I live...he then called back again, this time I threatened a restraining order and the police, I could make something up right and get him thrown in jail.....I do know where he lives.

Today, I watched yesterday's episode of Dr. Phil....on there was a gentlemen having difficulty finding the right person, he is kinda cute and Dr. Phil said to log on and let them know If we would like to meet this gentleman, heck yeah I would....so I sent my note and right after I sent it my phone rang and it was my daughter....now this is way too funny! She goes did you watch yesterday's Dr. Phil? yeah why, well I sent a note to Dr. Phil so you could meet this guy......The guy lives less than two hours from me it might work!!!! This is me being optimistic again, LOL!

Well the saga will continue at a later date....................................

Men in their 40's

I come to realize that men in their 40's who are single are single for a reason.

I had the proverbial Mr. Right and I walked away. Dumb Dumb Dumb.........I have recently tried internet dating and let me tell you each time I met these men in public places they were already drunk. I need to find a man who likes to drink and what I mean by drinking is sharing a good bottle of wine, savoring the flavors, sipping the wine while having good conversation over a meal and not at the local joint where everyone hangs out on Saturday night. A nice restaurant and it doesn't have to be five star, T.G.I Friday's will do. Not only were these men drunk, they assumed it was ok to paw me and kiss me. I had to have my friend call and pretend it was my mom who had fallin down to get away from the Octopus. (The first one seemed pretty nice, but after some thought and we had agreed to go out together the next day, I decided I would meet him there rather than ride with him on the back of his Harley-in case he got too drunk to drive, he proceeded to yell at me that we would go together as a team, needless to say, I cancelled) (The second one, called me four times before I arrived asking how soon will I get there, etc and after I said goodnight to him-he called four times on the drive back home-would you say a little smothering)

I am an independent woman, happy in my own skin and I don't need a man in my life to fulfill a void. A companion would be nice. Someone to visit museums together, take trips with, but the idea that I am a piece of meat, no I am better than that. And it it's not out there, than so be it.........